There was this friend of mine who passed away, who disappeared like a midsummer night dream. He told me that it's often best that people don't know what others think of them. The more I go through life the more it was proven to be true. Unless you are absolutely in love with a person the closer you get the more you see their imperfection. Sometimes you could be the only person who notices those imperfections, sometimes those shortcomings don't matter to others. So no matter how close you get to a person you never know how they are received by others.
Regardless of the specific judgement you make based on information available to you, someone might have a much more vibrant life or might be satisfied with the life they lead. They could be enough to themselves and more, even if you don't approve of it and you could be an absolute mess in their eyes. It's important to remember that everyone has different needs and unique ways of living life before loosely passing judgement around.
Since the approval of others is not oxygen, let us not worry about what others might think of us or what category they placed us in after their personal judgement, aka assumptions. In a world where your own judgement of yourself might be also wrong, all you can do is think that you are the absolute best thing to bless this earth and be confident in your own skin. Cause let's be honest if you have leisure to read this, you're more blessed than you might think. Remember kids, the world is a mirror and also whatever you think it is.
- Vishmini
