First, love, colorful picture.
Love is a colorful picture, and each color represents a different emotional experience. Red represents enthusiasm and passion. When two people meet for the first time, the fire of love in their hearts is ignited, and that enthusiasm is like a burning flame, which makes people full of vitality and courage to pursue. Blue symbolizes melancholy and profundity, and there will inevitably be quarrels and contradictions in love. At this time, love is like a deep ocean, which makes people feel confused and confused. Green represents freshness and nature. When two people get along well and enjoy each other's company, love is like the grass in spring, full of vitality and hope.
In the picture of love, there are countless delicate strokes. It is mutual care and care, a gentle look, a warm hug and a thoughtful word. These little details, like embellishments in a picture scroll, make love more vivid and real. In the world of love, everyone is a painter, painting his own love picture with his own sincerity and actions.
However, the picture of love is not always smooth. Sometimes, there will be storms, setbacks and difficulties. But it is these challenges that make love more tenacious and precious. When two people face difficulties together, support each other and work together, the picture of love will become more colorful.
Love, this colorful picture, makes us feel the beauty and warmth of life. It allows us to find a spiritual destination in this noisy world and gives us the courage to face the challenges of life. No matter whether the picture of love is colorful or plain as water, it is the most precious wealth in our life, which deserves our care and care.
Second, the sweetness and bitterness of love
(1) Sweet moments
Sweet moments in love, like bright stars, adorn our lives. Watching the sunrise and sunset together, the gorgeous colors are reflected in each other's eyes, as if the whole world is left with each other. At that moment, time seemed to stand still, and my heart was full of warmth and emotion.
Sharing the little funny things in life is also a kind of sweetness. Maybe it's a cute puppy I saw on my way to work, or a funny joke I overheard. I can't wait to share it with each other, and I will feel extremely happy when I look at the smile on each other's face.
Mutual care and care is the embodiment of the sweetness of love. When one party is sick, the other party takes good care of him, handing him a cup of hot water and a bowl of hot porridge, and softly comforting him like a spring breeze. In the cold winter, we hug each other tightly, warm each other and feel each other's heartbeat, as if we had the whole world.
There are also those casual little surprises, a bunch of flowers and a small gift, which can make each other feel full of love. Walking in the streets together, holding hands, without words, the tacit understanding and warmth are enough to make people intoxicated.
(2) Bitter experience
However, love is not always smooth sailing, and there will be bitter experiences. Family opposition often brings great pressure to love. When parents don't recognize their lovers, the helplessness and pain are unbearable. On the one hand, it is to raise their parents, on the other hand, they are deeply loved, and they are caught in the middle.
The barrier of distance is also a big challenge for love. Long-distance lovers can only maintain their feelings through telephone calls and videos. Missing comes like a flood, but I can't touch each other's warmth. Long-term separation is easy to cause anxiety and doubt, and every separation is like a torment.
Economic pressure makes love bitter. In real life, money is a factor that cannot be ignored. Running around for life and working hard for the future often leads to contradictions due to economic problems. Seeing my dream defeated by reality, my heart is full of helplessness and loss.
However, it is these bitter experiences that make love more precious. In the face of difficulties and setbacks, two people work together to support each other and go through those difficult days together, and love will become deeper and firmer.
Third, love in different times
(A) the love of ancestors
The love of ancestors is like an old song in the depths of the years. Although it is not unassuming, it has a long lasting charm. In that era of material scarcity, their love was devoid of flowery words and expensive gifts. Holding hands is a lifelong commitment. Their love is reserved, and they may never say "I love you" all their lives, but they interpret the true meaning of love with actions.
When something is broken, they will try to fix it instead of throwing it away easily. Just as they treat their feelings, they face problems together and try to solve them. Their love is simple and firm, without too much romance and passion, but they are accompanied by each other.
They may not have had a date, but the days of working together and fighting for their families are full of warmth. Their love is gradually precipitated in the tempering of years, just like aged wine, the longer it gets, the more fragrant it becomes.
(B) the love of parents.
The love of parents has many forms. In some families, parents' love may be full of contradictions and helplessness. The pressure of life and personality differences make them quarrel when they get along. However, it is these quarrels that make them learn to understand and tolerate. They run in through the years, gradually find ways to get along with each other, and precipitate deep feelings.
Some parents are harmonious and symbiotic. They respect each other and run the family together. They set a good example for children and let them grow up in a loving environment. In this love mode, children feel the warmth and support of their families and learn how to love and be loved.
Other parents are complementary and help each other. They give full play to their own advantages and face the challenges in life together. Their love makes children understand the importance of cooperation and appreciate different personalities and abilities.
(3) Modern love
The concept of love of modern young people is full of challenges and unique charm. In this era of information explosion, young people are faced with more choices and temptations. Through various social platforms, they met people from different places and had more opportunities to find true love.
However, they also believe in fate more, and they are happy with it. They will not make a lifetime commitment as easily as their ancestors did, but pay more attention to the current feelings. They hope to find their true self in love and realize their self-worth.
Modern young people's concept of love is also more open and inclusive. They are no longer limited to traditional gender roles and love patterns, but dare to pursue the love they really want. They pay attention to each other's growth and development, are willing to pay for each other, and also hope to get each other's support and understanding.
They are eager for sweetness and romance in love, and they can face the challenges of reality rationally. They understand that love is not the whole of life, but also career, friendship and self-growth. On the road of pursuing true love, they constantly explore and strive to find their own happiness.
Fourth, the power and confusion of love
(A) the power of love
Love is a powerful force, which can make people rise in difficulties and find light in the dark. When a person falls in love, it seems that he has endless courage and motivation. In the face of difficulties, don't shrink back, but go forward bravely, because you have something to care about and protect in your heart. Just like those who work hard to give their loved ones a better life, they are not afraid of storms and setbacks, just to realize their common dreams.
Love can make people find courage in setbacks. When encountering failure, the encouragement and support of the lover is like warm sunshine, which dispels the haze in the heart. Accompanied by each other, people can re-examine themselves, find out the reasons for failure, and summon up courage to challenge again. Just like Xiaoming and Xiaomei in the story, in the face of career setbacks and diseases, they supported each other and walked through the difficulties together, and finally realized their dreams.
Fighting hard for each other is another manifestation of the power of love. Because of love, people are willing to pay more and strive to improve themselves in order to give each other a better future. This kind of struggle is not only a material pursuit, but also a spiritual growth. In this process, the two sides made progress and grew together, and their love became deeper and firmer.
(B) the confusion of love
Love is often full of all kinds of puzzles, which makes people think deeply. One of them is not knowing each other. In love, sometimes I find that my understanding of the other half is not as deep as I thought. As mentioned in the discussion of Douban, it was only after breaking up that I found that my partner's actions were completely different and even strange. This may be because in the early days of love, people often disguise themselves and play the role expected by each other. With the passage of time, the true self gradually appears, and contradictions also arise. To solve this problem, we need both sides to skillfully use communication, break role-playing, bravely show their true selves and work together to establish a real intimate relationship.
Worrying about losing is also a big puzzle in love. When you really like someone, your heart will be full of fear and fear of losing this precious feeling. This fear stems from the increase of emotional input, uncertainty and fear, fear of being hurt, the pursuit of perfection and the correlation of self-worth. In order to cope with this fear of loss, we can establish healthy communication methods, cultivate our hobbies and independent living ability, learn to accept the imperfection and uncertainty in love, and seek the help of professional psychological counselors.
Confusion about the future is also a common confusion in love. In love, people often feel uncertain about the future and don't know where the relationship between two people will go. Modern young people, in particular, pay more attention to their present feelings and have less plans for the future. However, the lack of common goals and plans for the future is easy to confuse love. In order to solve this problem, both sides need to frankly communicate their expectations and plans for the future, jointly find a direction suitable for each other, and strive to lay a solid foundation for future life.
V. Expectation and persistence of love
(A) the expectation of love
In this complicated world, people's yearning for beautiful love has never stopped. Everyone has an expectation of sincere, long-lasting and happy love in his heart, just like pursuing a warm lighthouse in the vast sea.
People are eager to have a pure love, no impurities, no hypocrisy, only sincere dedication and response. In this love, the two sides can be honest with each other, share each other's joys and sorrows, and become the most solid support for each other. Just as the poet described it: "I hope to win the hearts of one person, and the white head will not leave." This expectation is the desire for spiritual harmony and the expectation for the person who can read his own soul.
People also expect love to bring long-term companionship. In the long journey of life, there is a person who is always with you, walking through spring, summer, autumn and winter together and experiencing the ups and downs of life together. When encountering difficulties, the other party can give encouragement and support; When achievements are made, the other party can share the joy together. This kind of companionship is not only physical dependence, but also spiritual resonance.
Happiness is another great expectation for love. Happiness can be a warm hug, a thoughtful greeting, or an ordinary day spent together. In happy love, people can feel loved and cherished, and can see their own value in each other's eyes. This kind of happiness is not a short-lived passion, but a long-flowing warmth.
(2) Persistence in love
Love is not only a beautiful expectation, but also needs persistence and dedication. On the road of love, difficulties and challenges are inevitable, but true love can stand the test.
Sticking to love means never giving up no matter what difficulties you encounter. When facing the opposition of family members, we should stand by each other firmly and prove our choice with actions. Just like those brave couples, they strive for their own happiness despite the obstruction of their families and finally win the recognition of their families. When encountering the barrier of distance, we should trust each other's feelings, keep in touch through various ways, and let love cross the limitation of time and space. Couples in long-distance love, every day's phone calls, videos, and every gathering are all persistence in love.
Mutual support is an important manifestation of the persistence of love. In life, everyone will encounter setbacks and difficulties, and in love, both sides should become the source of strength for each other. When one party's career is frustrated, the other party gives encouragement and support to help the other party regain confidence; When one party is sick, the other party takes good care of it and never gives up. Just like the ancients said, "husband and wife are birds in the same forest, and when the disaster comes, they fly separately." But true love is to join hands and support each other when the disaster comes.
Sticking to love still needs to pay. Spend time and energy to understand each other's needs and preferences, and create surprises and romance for each other. Pay patience and tolerance, accept each other's shortcomings and deficiencies, and learn to understand and forgive in quarrels and contradictions. Only by constantly paying can the flower of love always bloom undefeated.
In this world full of variables, the expectation and persistence of love is particularly precious. Let's cherish the beautiful expectation of love, and write our own love legend together with persistence and dedication.
