Two women were chatting in a room,one asked, "How is everything going with your son?"
"Oh,don't even mention it! What a huge misfortune!!" The woman sighed :"He is poor enough, and married an extraordinary lazy daughter-in-law. She doesn’t cook, not clean the room, not look after the children except to sleep all the time. It was my son who brings breakfast to her bed.
"How about your daughter?"
"She might be lucky." the woman smiled.
"She married a good husband who doesn’t allow her to do the housework, and handles everything all alone. The housework includes cooking, washing, cleaning and looking after the children. What’s more, he brings breakfast to my daughter every day."
Consider same situation, but when we look from my perspective, it will have a different mentality.
Stand to look at other people's position, or at each other's point of view to think about a lot of things not the case,You can have a greater tolerance, will have more love.