Living a life of lack of love is not only due to a lack of love, but also because you have been living in discomfort for a long time, so you have become accustomed to that uncomfortable feeling and have not experienced inner peace.
Therefore, you have been living in a state of anxiety and pain, and have become accustomed to it. The real harm comes from this habitual pain, and you don't know how to change it. You don't know that people can live a peaceful and comfortable life. Lack of love is a small pain, but because of the early impact, it can destroy a person's ability to pursue happiness.
The delayed happiness that is later delayed is what people really lack, and the lack of all aspects is the source of their true pain, not the lack of love itself. Therefore, what you need is the ability to achieve happiness and the ability to make yourself comfortable, so that you can relax.
Because you have found a way to calmly deal with the results of life. You are not lacking love, you are lacking some specific ways and methods, and the way to truly solve the problem of being loved is not to solve love itself, but to use concrete ways to be good to yourself. Is there anything you don't understand?