People cannot control their own destiny, but they can control their attitude towards it and calmly endure the inevitable fate that falls on them.

A person's attitude towards handling things hides their knowledge and cultivation, and also determines the direction of their life.

A person with a strong inner self can achieve the goal of not worrying before, carrying on with the task, and flipping over the past.

01 Don't worry about not coming

Life will always give you the answer, how to understand before time comes.

Little did they know that worrying about things that had not yet happened in the future was purely self seeking.

Once upon a time, a young man searched everywhere for the secret to relieving his troubles.

He saw a shepherd boy leisurely blowing seedlings in the green grass at the foot of the mountain and asked, "Are you so happy? Don't you have any worries?"

Shou Tong said, "Riding on the back of a cow, Jian Zi blew away all his troubles."

The young man tried, but his troubles still lingered. So he had to continue searching.

So he walked forward again. He met an elderly man with a smile in the cave and asked him for the secret to relieve his troubles.

The old man smiled and asked, "Has anyone tied you up?"

The young man replied, "No?"

The old man said, "Since no one is binding you, why talk about liberation?"

The young man thought for a moment and realized with great worry that he was bound by the psychological cage he had set up.

As long as we live in the present and strive to do well in the things at hand, life will never mistreat us. Since that's the case, there's no need to worry.

So, the future is not scary. What's scary is always having anxiety about the future, and the present is not scary either. What's scary is being arrogant.

The node of time change was not intended, but people are always optimistic, so they are full of expectations to give it the meaning of new and old changes, planning how to change in the future is the most important thing to do.

This is what Feng Zikai said: "Don't be disheartened, don't be trapped in emotions. Don't fear the future, don't dwell on the past."

02

If something happens, just hold on with force

I strongly agree with the saying: "The measure of a person's success is not the height at which they reach the peak, but the rebound force when they fall to the bottom."

Those who can withstand the heavy pressure of life and fight back are truly strong.

In this world, there are always many things that make us collapse. The longer I live, the more I understand Mr. Yang Jiang's saying, "There is no one in this world who does not carry injuries."

The difference is that some people sink in pain and give up the rest of their lives, while others bear the ups and downs of fate and welcome a new life.

There is a passage in "The Island Bookstore": "Everyone has the most painful years in their life, making life beautiful and vast."

Unable to hold on, your life comes to an abrupt end.

Hold on, you will find that suffering is just another synonym for tempering.

People should be like the seeds of dandelions. Wherever the wind of life blows us, we will take root.

This is a resilient life that can only be reborn by letting go of all the things of yesterday.