Comparison is also a form of evaluation.
Take a look at how they raise their children, they always come first in exams, and then take a look at you.
Can you be as conscious as others and do your homework on time?
A 7-year-old child can control themselves better than you.
Many parents often use comparison as a way to stimulate their children, encourage them to correct their shortcomings, be ashamed, and then be brave.
But children only feel despised and cannot feel the love of their parents.
Once you start comparing, there will be a gap in your heart. Over time, the child will feel that they can't do it well and are not as good as others.
Psychologically, a vicious cycle will form, and in the end, one may even break the jar and become increasingly distant from their parents.