Learn to be silent Sometimes, you are misunderstood and you don’t want to argue, so you choose to remain silent. Not everyone needs to understand you, so you think there is no need to shout to the whole world. But sometimes, you are misunderstood by the person you love most, and you are so sad that you don't want to argue, so you can only choose to remain silent. The whole world can not understand you, but he should understand. If he can't understand, what else can he say? There are often moments in life when even Schubert is speechless. After all, not all right and wrong can be clearly defined, and there may even be no real right and wrong at all. So, if you don't want to talk, just don't talk. When talking more is useless, silence may be the best explanation. At least be calm. When you hit the bottom of your life, everyone around you tells you: Be strong and be happy. Strength is absolutely necessary, but happiness? In this case, I am afraid it is too difficult for you. After all, who can still feel happy when they fall to pieces? But at least you can be calm. Look at this matter calmly and deal with other matters that need to be dealt with calmly. There is no happiness in tranquility, but no unhappiness either.